Harus di akui rata2 manusia itu jagoan kandang ... eits, jangan tersinggung ya ... kenyataannya memang begitu kok karena rasa aman berada dihabitatnya bikin kita jadi sebebas-bebasnya 'mengekspresikan' diri tanpa di tahan2 ..
misalnya, di rumah atau di kantor kita berasa bisa berkelakuan & bertingkah laku sesuai keaslian kepribadian & sifat kita dibandingin dengan kalo kita ada di luar rumah atau di luar kantor ... bikin sering kita terkaget-kaget denger atau liat kontrasnya pembawaan seseorang saat ybs berada di dalam & di luar habitatnya ..
"iya nih, saya juga heran kenapa di rumah dia Batak tapi kok di sekolah dia putri solo" seorang ibu 1/2 megeluh mengometari kelakuan anak perempuannya
"betul, bu .. aku liat sendiri di rumah dia teriak2, bercada, ngomong suaranya keras, lari kesana kemari, main sama adiknya rame banget" tambah evelyn yang pernah bertamu ke rumah murid kita yang satu ini & di sana terheran-heran ngeliat anak yang sama bertingkah laku 180 derajat beda banget dengan kalo di sekolah
di sekolah suaranya pelan banget kalo ngomong ... pokoke putri solo abizz ! he he he .... bikin aku & evelyn jadi sering harus ber-"hah ? apa ?" ke dia. bukan karena kita lagi ngeledekin dia tapi karena bener2 kita jadi berasa kayak orang budeg banget kalo tu anak lagi ngomong ... he he he ...
sampe sekarang pun kita juga masih sering bingung kenapa anak ini belon bisa berasa aman & nyaman sepenuhna kalo ada di dalam kelas padahal aku & evelyn bukan guru yang 'garang' .... emang di kata macan kalee ... garang ... he he he ...
& sebetulnya dengan jumlah murid TK A yang cuma 14 anak bikin suasana kelas ga terlalu hiruk pikuk, jadi ga sulit juga buat anak saling kenal.
malah makin lama makin terasa kita seperti satu keluarga besar karena meminjam istilah evelyn, guru TK A okem maksudnya merujuk ke aku gitu ... he he he ... karena aku bisa ngobrol ama anak seakan-akan kita teman sebaya, mau main uber-uberan sama mereka, bisa asyik di ajak bercanda ... ya, jangan heran aja kalo liat muridku bisa nyantai aja meluk, nyium, minta di gendong atau di garukin ampe ngegelitikin aku atau malah main ledek-ledekan sambil ngejulurin lidah ... so ga berasa kagok deh buat anak saling bergaul atau bergaul dengan gurunya ... jadi ngapain juga kok masih berasa malu2 ?
ya, mudah-mudahan dengan berjalannya waktu & bertambahnya umur anak didik kami yang satu ini mengalami perkembangan positif. pokoknya jangan pernah berhenti berdoa, berusaha & berharap ... Tuhan pasti menolong ..
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We've to admit that most of us is a cock at home or at work, in the place(s) where we feel is our safe habitat makes us tend to feel free to show our real faces ...
how many times people surprise you when they show their 2 faces. the face they've at home or work can be a huge different with the face they put when they're not home or at work.
"I wonder wh she's a complete different person at home & in school" a mom complained half in despair, half in amazement about her daughter
"true" said eveln who once withnessed it when she visited her house "at home she talks loudly, screaming, running, she's very noisy"
in school she's quiet & talks so soft that evelyn & I have to "huh? ... what ? ... how's that ?" to her whenever she speaks to us not because we tease her but because she really makes us feel like there were some thing wrong with our hearings .. lol
we still don't know wh she hasn't feel completely safe & comfortable in class since evelyn & I aren't stern teachers, not as if we were 2 fierce lions .. lol ...
& beside, with the onl 14 kids in our class it's supposed to make it less noisy & also easy to get to know & make friends with one another ...
plus evelyn & I are also creating an atmosphere where we're all feel like a one big family.
so don't be surprised if you see me chat with kids as if we were contemporaries or playing chase each other, joking around, tickle one another or seeing the kids feel free to hug or kiss me or even ask me to carry them, to scratch an itchy back / leg ... to sometimes making faces or sticking out the tongue in jokey mood ...
so with all that, they should have feel at ease with one another, no need to feel shy ...
well, hopefully time along with growing up will make our one particular kid makes positive progress. never stop praying, do the best & be optimist .. God will help ..
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